Re: 有關異國戀情 - 文化差異

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※ 引述《cloudysky (jen)》之銘言:
: 罵我) 男孩子在一個relationship裡面總是會希望自己是可以讓女生依靠的一方
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If you always think so, you will never got a white girl, particularly from
Europe.

: 當一個男生要跟一個講英文(或是別的文)的女生交往時, 如果他自己的英文不是
: 自己的母語的話, 可能也是會多多少少會害怕, 怕自己是不是會在女生面前出糗
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Indeed. Do you want to know why Taiwanese usually not confident to show off?
Remember when we were students at schools of every level,
there were really students could show off confidentially.
However, the teachers dislike this very much; if you keep quiet, you will be
fine; if you show off, you can get something in the next minutes.
Years and years past, significant number of people of this nation have lost
confidence even to speak their opinions nor to argue for their right.
When they are speaking, they watches the listeners' faces; they are trying
not to make the listeners unhappy (although the words must not make them
very happy...).

Language problem, certainly, makes it worse. I don't really think language
is really a problem, nevertheless. Have you watched an English film,
Love Actually? or a French film, The Russian Dolls. I am sure they will give
you some ideas.

To say love is not that difficult. However, if you have even never said
'Je t'aime' to a French girl, you cannot just give an excuse of bad French.

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All Comments

Anthony avatarAnthony2006-07-22
第二段的例子很怪??~.~ 那跟有沒有自信沒關係吧..??
Kumar avatarKumar2006-07-25
我也覺得有點怪 -.-
John avatarJohn2006-07-27
那是文化差異吧 東方文化講求謙虛
Liam avatarLiam2006-07-31
還有那是confidently不是confidentially
Olga avatarOlga2006-08-03
不過我也不是說所有人啊 XD我也有一位英文普普但交了外뀠
國女友的台灣朋友 但我只是說我覺得很多時候害怕自己不
Annie avatarAnnie2006-08-06
能打入對方的圈子都跟語言還是有點問題 我覺得這還是佔
Rebecca avatarRebecca2006-08-09
滿大多數的吧 自己的淺見啦 XD
Tracy avatarTracy2006-08-11
當然如果大家都能像你最後說得一樣有自信的試試看 我們
Annie avatarAnnie2006-08-13
也不會在討論這個吧-_-就是因為大部分的人做不到吧我想
Caitlin avatarCaitlin2006-08-16
東方人是謙虛...
Necoo avatarNecoo2006-08-17
第一段不懂,為麼歐洲女孩不喜歡?